Parents torturing me Parents torturing me

5 years ago

I am 22 year old and I want to marry a person whose wife is dead but my parents are continuously torturing me so that I will not marry him. Also they are saying if I will marry him they will stay with me for whole life and take all their expenses from me. And always saying to do different things to broke my relation.
Please guide me how can I legally get out of all this and live a happily married life with that person

Shanti Ranjan Behera

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Client,
You have two aspects here.One is fact and other one is law.
Fact is you are not employed, you do not have any source of income.First get employed.
Second, you have the right to marry according to your choice and no body can stop you.
Taking all the points in to consideration you take the decision.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
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Deepak Yashwantrao Bade

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client you can marry with him.but you might be loose your parents and their love.take time and think about your future. It's predictable.
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Prabhakara S K Shetty

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Find out the real reason why your parents are opposing you marrying that person. Then I will tell you how to go ahead.
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GANESH SHARMA

Responded 5 years ago

A.Which city do you belong
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VIMAL K MISHRA

Responded 5 years ago

A.You can marry your own choice, but definitely talk to your parents because they may be embarrassed about fear and love you much. In this case, once you consult with a psychologist.
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ROBERT D ROZARIO

Responded 5 years ago

A.It's your choice. If you feel that you will be more happy with that person then go ahead and get married under the marriage law ie Hindu Marriage Act or Special Marriage Act. Your parents cannot restrain you from getting married with a person of your choice. Legally they cannot live in your spouse house and cannot force you to provide them with maintenance unless you have a source of income. Your spouse is not responsible for your parents' maintenance.
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Sanjay Kumar Jha

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear Client, there are many suggestions for you to do. I will not say that you should not marry of your choice. But, which is very important here that perhaps ur parents do not want to marry widower. This must be the bone of your contentions.
Also , there is no certainty that she will like or give u so much love and affection . But you have surety that if you agree with ur parents you and your parent must be happy. You can do anything what you want to do legally, but life is not sure after marriage . However, do not take quick decision , let your friend wait for some time , then watch what he thinks and say and behaves with you. If he would accept your parents , is he independent so enough to handle all. Your age is not much, do not loose happiness of ur parents ,
If your friend realy wants to settle with u then , he will also try to solve ur problem.or he may talk to ur parents too.
Sometimes legal actions are more harsh.
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Gopal Bansal

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear Lalita,
First of all, you are major and able to marry on your own will. Also you have a number of legal remedies available to get rid of this kind of situation and marrying a widower is not even wrong in the eyes of law. But the point to be noted is, if you will opt legal procedure against your parents, you will loss their love and affection forever. A few more things you have to ensure is that whether the boy to whom you are going to marry, is trustworthy and is able to maintain you and your coming generations or whether he is merely making castles in the air. For more information, you should contact a good legal practitioner from the Vidhikarya platform having expertise in family matters.
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Kavery Anand

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client u r major. U have every right to marry of Ur choice..so go get registered marriage in sub registrar office.. then ask them to come and stay with u.. but u tell Ur husband that .. they will try to break our marriage so be strong... ignore their complaints or disturbance...
If they continue torturing u then complaint in police.
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Ambrose Leo

Responded 5 years ago

A.First & foremost is, are you are independent & financially self sufficient and your parents help is not required, secondly is your partner is also trustworthy to depend on him in good & bad days of your life, further you should prepare yourself to live on your own, only when your are successful, your parents will come to terms, but on the other hand you have all hardship of life. Law cannot enforce your parents for their performance ,help & love provided you are under their care & protection. better to take help,guidance & conciliation from your local CP office centre.
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Deepika Singh

Responded 5 years ago

A.If u lodge any complaint against them before marriage you will be lost your parents love forever so first get marriage and try to leave them for some time.if they wi not stop torturing u then try to file complaint but before not if you wants your parents and your love together.
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Deepika Singh

Responded 5 years ago

A.Firstly get court marriage to that person to whom u love after that the your parents will convince if you try to understand them all these thing they will never understand u hv your own right to get marry to whom you love your parents will got angry but after 2or3 year they definitely convinced when they assured that you are living your life much better.
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Rameshwar Dadhe

Responded 5 years ago

A.By advocate Rameshwor dadhe dear mam if it is against your will. Then approach nearest police station and register your complaint against them who are forcing u .for marriage
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Manjula Shanmugasundaram

Responded 5 years ago

A.Please tell more clearly in what way they are torturing you. If you give clear information, a proper advise can be given. Also, do you have your own income? Where do you stay now?
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Lalita Kumari

Replied 5 years ago

I am at my parents house...Right now I m not working but I can earn by my own but they are not allowing me to go outside
They keep on saying that we have done a lot for h we have spend a lot of money on your studies...If you will marry him we will insult him in his office and stay outside the place where you stay and say to people that you and your husband are cruel

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