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5 years ago

i have been married for almost 5 years n have a 4 gear old baby girl... things have not been pretty well from past 4 years. there has been sexual as well as physical violence, everytime it happens he some how make tge whole situation blaming me having alcohal where as i m not a regular drinker but i do get aggressive if triggered.. he uses this as my weak point. i had onced even commited suicide thinking he might jus understan that m done with everything but he took it as i ve played a stunt.. he threatens me that he will kill me if i left him.... we live in a joint family n drinking here ocassionally is with everyone but i am the only one accused....my inlaws don support me ultimatly its dere son who is correct.... i went through the depression that even had to get some appointments to the counceller as well as phyciactrist..... i jus need to knw the way out and my parents are not supportive with d divorce decision.... pls help me out

Deepak Yashwantrao Bade

Responded 5 years ago

A.Dear client my fair and honest opinion is to quite and get rid of from drinking.you are woman and you have to take care of all your family .Try to think about your children and their future. if you want drink instead of family love then simple way to file divorce case and enjoy your life.
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Shanti Ranjan Behera

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Client,
The best option for you is to consult the Marriage Counselor privately/or Counselor in the Family Court/ and also a Psychiatrist.After completion of these and having some rest you can think of the legal action. In between start writing daily diary which will help you at a later date. Please think it coolly.
Shanti Ranjan Behera,Advocate
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akanksha kuttiyal

Replied 5 years ago

sir though i have already seen a marriage counceler and a phyciaciactrist i ges a help from family court is the only thing left n m trying my level best to make thia marriage work but my counceler told me toh take some sessions along with my husban for which he is not ready...

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ARPIT BATRA

Responded 5 years ago

A.If intoxicants are ruining your family, quitting them is the first step. Regards
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akanksha kuttiyal

Replied 5 years ago

sir
i am not an alcoholic, its not a habit.

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ROBERT D ROZARIO

Responded 5 years ago

A.lodge a complaint against your husband under domestic violence
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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

Responded 5 years ago

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A.Dear Madam,
go for domestic violence option
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Rameshwar Dadhe

Responded 5 years ago

A.By advocate Rameshwor dadhe dear sir you will losses Ur own life. Why are you drink . you should avoid it then solve each and every issue. You should try at least
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akanksha kuttiyal

Replied 5 years ago

i am not dependent on alcohal n its not that its a habit... i use to take it occasionally like everybdy in my husbands family .

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Rameshwar Dadhe

Replied 5 years ago

You should try it some days

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Rajender Prasad

Responded 5 years ago

A.you have not mention full facts of the matter. For details pl. contact some advocate through vidhikarya.com
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