Inlaws rude behaviour
5 years ago
Sir, i m 20 yrs old and i got married on 20 april this year nd my inlaws do live in delhi but my fatherlaw is suffring from kidney disease so for its treatment now they have shifted orrisa so when me nd my husband went there at their house first they didnt accept us bcoz it was a love marrige but then they agreed so we started living there but they used to treat me like a maid they said that you are not more than a servant for us and go and delete your facebook account otherwise i ill beat yiu with my sandal nd my hubnd didnt even said a single word against them inspite he was just seeng me nd was not doing any thing nd they didnt treat me well now 2months back i came to delhi to my paternal house nd i called my husbnd nd asked him to come to delhi nd stay with me becoz i dnt want to live with his parents now he is refusing as he is saying that i ill come there after my father treatment which i feel that this is not giving me justice so sir what should i do now ? I want to stay with him but not with his family nd he is not ready for that so what should i do plz give me a solution.
ARPIT BATRA
Responded 5 years ago
Deepak Yashwantrao Bade
Responded 5 years ago
Rajender Prasad
Responded 5 years ago
Try to sort it amicably with your husband.
If you lodge a complaint all of them might land up in jail and the relationship will further be strained.
Actually everything depends on the education of the boy,job,income etc.
Try to know what your husband wants.
The other alternative is go the court of law.
At this stage I have nothing to add as advice has already been given.
Shanti Ranjan Behera,Advocate
As a sample treatment join him and file the DV case as follows.
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PRAYER
HENCE THE APPLICANT HUMBLY PRAYS
A) to take cognizance for the offence punishable u/s 498A IPC and punish Respondent No.1 to 3 as per law and extend police protection to the deponent,
B) Pass orders u/s 19, based upon S.17, granting separate residence for herself and her three children at a monthly rent of Rs. 20,000/- and advance of Rs. 5,00,000/-.
C) Pass orders u/s 18, in totality against Respondent No.1 to 3,
D) Pass orders u/s 20(i) granting Rs.25,000/- per month as maintenance for applicant and maintenance at the rate of Rs. 5,000/- each per month to her three children.
E) Pass orders granting Rs. 5,00,000/- for setting up house hold requirements, in granted residence, to make it livable, as the applicant cannot return to the house of Respondent No.1 as he is residing in the house of respondent No. 3, which is legally prohibited,
F) Pass orders granting litigation expenses of Rs.1,00,000/- as the applicant made to wander from pillar to post for getting legal aid to attend the Hon’ble Court, whereas, the Respondent No.1 falsely filed Divorce Petition.
G) The applicant also filed interim application supported by affidavit u/s 23(1) and (2) of D.V.Act,
H) That any other order/s, this Hon’ble Court deems fit, to meet the ends of justice, be passed.
Sanjay Kumar Jha
Responded 5 years ago
Your husband is not responding may be due to present facing problem of his family, father.
You should wait for sometime, and wait and watch situation. If he even or meantime not responding even talking to you or avoiding you, then only you may send him a legal notice if you wish, and drag him in court, with all proof of your marriage,