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5 years ago

I got married 2 years back n went to USA with husband... It was an arranged marriage n we just met once... Was just connected over phone... I felt he was the right guy for me as we had a lot of talks when we met... But after I went to USA n started living with him I realized that I'm not compatible with him.. There arised differences in opinion n we used to have fights over almost every thing... I hated the way he used to speak n hence a bad image of him was painted in my mind... It became impossible for me to indulge in sex with him as a result of these differences n clashes... I still tried to adjust but faced difficulties.... We hardly used to talk because of these differences n clashes. It became boring. The differences became prominent day by day.... After one year I came back to India to meet my parents... My husband eventually had problems with me being too involved with my family n started poking me for everything... He started criticizing me... I came for two months as I was missing my parents as I hardly had time with them after my marriage... Due to some visa issues I had to go earlier but I refused as I was unable to adjust with the situation n I was diagnosed with depression because of all d clashes.... At that time my uncle who was irritated with me refusing to go back because he was scared that her daughter may face problems in getting married, took my phone forcibly n abused me verbally. He used slangs. He verbally abused my friends who called me that day accusing them of breaking my marriage... Seeing all these I agreed to go back unwillingly.. My friends cut off all ties with me after all these as they have their family....
After two years when I came back finally... I had a fight with my in laws n husband regarding staying at my parents home... I felt insulted.... Hence I came back home.. My family members got irritated n stopped talking with me... I decided to get a job as I didn't wanted to be a burden for my parents... Iwas on h4 visa in USA n hence couldn't do a job)... I went for an interview n immediately got a job... When I came back home I was asked to go back to my in laws as they have a marriage n they won't be able to give answers to their family... I refused but my uncle again started verbally abusing me... Using the cheapest of slangs.. He accused me of having affair with some other guy which is very insulting n untrue... He again took my phone n forced me to give password but I refused as I was scared he may do the same thing again especially with the hr who called me that day n accuse her which may affect my job life.... He restricted me from going out n didnt let me do the job... My parents couldn't speak a word in front of him.... They are not letting me go out or do a job... That person(uncle) always says bad words about me, my mom said.... I have to go to my in-laws forcibly... What can I do n what steps can I take against my uncle as he is too much now....

Siyaram Sharma

Responded 5 years ago

A.If you are not comfortable with, then you file a divorce petition in 13B in faimaly court.
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Anonymous

Replied 5 years ago

What steps can I take against my uncle?.. What if my husband does not want but I do

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Siyaram Sharma

Replied 5 years ago

For Proper legal advice ,you should call.
So many things required for that type of faimaly matters,
First you should go to pre litigation and take facility of mediation. For better advice you take my contact no form admin.
Take proper steps.
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Shanti Ranjan Behera

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A.Dear Madam,
Now you decide what you want?
Put your questions directly
We will answer you directly.
Then you take your decisions.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
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Anonymous

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What steps should I take if I want a divorce.. If husband does not want what can I do..... N I m restricted from doing job by my uncle what steps can I take

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Shanti Ranjan Behera

Replied 5 years ago

Dear Madam,
Fix up a Consultation through vidhikarya.com for details of filing divorce.
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Kishan Dutt Kalaskar

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A.You may prepare divorce without waiting further.
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Anonymous

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If uncle again starts doing the same thing what actions can I take

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Anonymous

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Also if my husband does not want a divorce but I do... What steps can I take

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