Mental harassment Mental harassment

1 year ago

My daughter was married in feb 2022,it was a love cum arranged marriage.just from next day of marriage the boy started saying I was not interested to marry but due to my father's pressure I had married, father being a IPS.Now at home father being posted other state boy with mother inlaw were there, boy use to ask my daughter to be away and sleep in other room. And when ever they sit together always discussed marriage do and donts.we had done all the expenses for marriage including groom side arrangements.mother in law keep taunting for clothes,colour complextion and keep harassing me mentally .Literally every night they made me cried and I had to talk to my parents about this suitation.Iwas in dark my husband was not doing the job for past three months and was on subatical leave .When I asked to rejoin he quarreled and tell me he is depressed but whole day with headphones only watch you tube.This was for1 1/2 months now in holi I went to my parents house but my mother in law forced him to accompny me for which he was not ready.In last moment I had bought flight tickets from my expense.He now at my place he didn't honor anyone and didn't want to meet anyone.we had a plan to give reception but we dropped with this type of behaviour of his.He went back after holi to his father's posting place as his birthday was there. My mother in law keep nagging why I didnt go with him, very nextday with great difficulty I manage reservation to make him surprise. But I was shattered as he came to know I was coming he on call yelling on me and asked to go back.Any how I checked in guest house, my father Inlaw unaware of suitation planned for a trip.Whole night had a quarrel next day I was scared as if he will push me out of car as he kept saying bad words.With great insult and humiliation I came back to my parents. I am now today residing with my parents I gave calls, SMS to my husband many times which he never replied.Due to marriage of my 2 friends in December I requested my father in law that I will be coming to home to had my clothes and jewelry as all was kept in their custody.Me along with my father reached the place found all my baggage was shifted from flat to garrage at base floor. He brought the jewelry in two days but 1st day while giving half he on plain paper asked for acknowledgement from me.Next day while handing over rest with difficulty after cross verification from snaps he had got a bond paper purchased on my name stating I had taken jewelry for my use.we were forced to sign and later one lady lawyer known to them came as witness.My mother in law sent false SMS to my mom stating we are rudely behaving and they are sick,we came back .I came to know my husband is not employed and was out in October.,last in dec a call from advocate stating I had left the place and why not coming back in innocence I don't want to go back in that house,I was made abused,humiliated, tortured and my health was drastically effected. I want divorce. Suggest help.

ROHIT DALMIA

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A.Dear Client!

You are right to seek divorce for this inhuman behaviour from your husband and in laws.

You need to appoint an Advocate and send him a legal notice for divorce, if he is ready for divorce then mutual divorce can be discussed or else divorce case has to be contested.
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A.Dear Client
You can file a divorce petition and it would be better if you take help of an Advocate for filing.
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