cheated in the name of love
3 months ago
a boy in my near by place used to stalked me while my studying 8th standard....due to false friendship i too talked with him unknowingly at that tender age...but my parents found out that and fought with his house...and we stopped talking...but after two years he got my contact number somewhere else..and contacted me...at this time ...he spoke with me for some days and without any reason he blocked me in social media and all sort of thhings and went out...the same thing continue after two years...and in the year of 2021 he joined in indian army ...at the year of 2022 in the month of january after completing his training...he got my number somewhere and used to call me always eventhough i blocked him...and at once i called hi back and explained...i dont have much maturity at that time so i talked with you...but now i have some bit of maturity and said that it wont it work it out and dont disturb me...but he didnt leave me...he ued to call again and again daily....and at some point i too accepted his love...because even after these much of years he searched and returned backed to me...i had been emotionally fooled....one day he said that if we have physical relationship no one even can separate us...but i refused to that...he used to force me for a long time..but i refused all time...one day while we went out for an outing...he forcefully made me to have an intimate relationship...i cant resist him...as he was very much violent at that time...now he is saying that i cant marry you as we are belonging to different community and my family wont accept this...i dont know what to do..since i was studying...i have been undergoing a sever mental depression and agony...
It's essential to prioritize your safety and well-being. Firstly, consider reaching out to a counselor, therapist, or a support organization to discuss the emotional toll this has taken on you. They can provide guidance on coping mechanisms and mental health support.
In terms of legal action, what you've described involves a serious violation of consent and is considered sexual assault. It's crucial to document any evidence you may have, such as messages, call records, or any other communication that can support your case. Report the incident to the police as soon as possible. If you feel unsafe doing so directly, consider seeking assistance from a trusted adult, friend, or a women's support organization to guide you through the process.
Remember that you have the right to say no and to be treated with respect. Seek support from those you trust, and consider involving law enforcement to ensure your safety and hold the individual accountable for their actions.
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If you are really stop your link with that guy then approach nearest Police Station and they will be give a warning to that guy and even threaten to file a FIR against him.