I want to get rid of this one guy
3 months ago
The guy is a lawyer n 28 year old and I m 19 ... We met each other last year April 2023 since he used to work near by my place in a bank aswell .. I went there to make my account n often used to meet each other due to banking works n we got connected with each other since I was really lonely and had no one to share my feelings to i used to go n share my feelings my problem to him .. like my past trauma that I was sexually assaulted by my dad... Which was years back n i still think of that n get anxiety about it . So we got connected and we started got physical too though we didn't had sex.... Thn I got admission in my college as a fresher and I had to go there to study n we didn't contact or text much .. during Durga Puja we got holiday and I came back n i realise my feelings slowly faded for him he asked me if he wanted to go further i didn't wanted to hurt him so i agreed to him when I went back after holidays we stoped contacting each other for 2 months so I thought the thing between us is over so I went in a relationship with other guy .. this winter break when I came back he saw me n started calling me n messaging me .. I got offended n I tried clearing him n told I don't want to stay in the relationship.. now he is acting up all crazy like a mental person .. threatening me to come home , kill me n dad or whoever is in my life ... Threatening me to harm me .. telling me to behave with him the same way like we used to which I don't want at all .. he yells n screams at me .. use different different Galis ... Calls me randi n whatever idk .. he is not leaving me at all n i m getting affected mentally .. I don't want my parents getting involved since I had shared him abt my dad n he is the only one with me right now .. he is threatening to kills my friends too .. day before yesterday I told him we will clear it out so I went to his office we tried doing it but he was giving me gali n all I told I don't want to be in relationship and be as a friend to him n settle it out clearly but he is not trying to understand.. he called me in his room to talk personally because mostly costomers keeps on coming in the office n will distract us so i agreed but when he took me in his room he tried kissing me which i denied.. tried touching me which i denied too .. when he didn't got what he wanted he just stood up opened his pants n started to masturbate .. I got really scared n started to cryy .. idk what to do .. yesterday he threatened me to come to my house late night ... And I m still scared idk what to doo.. today im going to his office again idk what will happen .. I just need help can someone help me idk what to do .. please help me I don't want my family to get involved in this help me
It's crucial to prioritize your safety and well-being. Firstly, try to distance yourself from this person and avoid any further physical contact or meetings. Document all threatening messages, calls, or any inappropriate behavior for evidence.
Consider seeking immediate assistance from the local authorities, such as filing a police complaint against his threats and actions. Reach out to friends or trusted individuals who can provide emotional support during this difficult time.
If you're comfortable, confide in someone close to you, like a family member or a counselor, about the situation. They can offer guidance and help you explore legal options if necessary.
Remember, your safety is of utmost importance, and there are support services available, such as helplines for victims of harassment and assault. Don't hesitate to contact them for advice and assistance.
Lastly, consider consulting with a legal professional to understand your rights and options in dealing with this situation. Your safety and mental well-being should be the top priorities, and there are resources available to help you navigate through this challenging time.
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If you are really interested to disconnect all your connections with that guy then go to nearest women police station and lodge a complaint and they will teach him a lesson.