Wife is threatening and blackmailing me
4 years ago
I have been married since 10 months ago in which my wife has stayed only 8-10 days at my rented house nearby my working place(Delhi NCR), here I lives alone and my hometown is in a different city.
I was looking for a working girl and we met through an online site and matched. Our family agreed and proceed for marriage. We both are working in the corporate sector but in a different city, she is working in Bangalore. Before marriage, I told her to come to Delhi and stay with me as I am working here and would be happy too if you come here and transfer, she agreed with me and after that, we proceed for marriage.
Starting one month was fine but after that, she demanded a luxury life like provide me 3 BHK own flat and car then I will think to come to Delhi and stay with you. Now she is not interested to come to Delhi and pushing me to come Bangalore and stay with me Otherwise she will file false domestic violence against me and my parents and maintenance case against me. This is seriously not fine for me.
she is very arrogant to me and my family.
We met 2-3 times in last 10 month, I booked flights for her many times to come here and meet me. She came but not interested to come permanent. When we were married it was very clear that after 2 months she will take a company transfer for Delhi and stay with me.
Last time she came to my place in Sep'19 to meet me. She is scolding me to do not talk to my family to request for me to come to Delhi.
She calls and messages me that "I will file for divorce and also file too much money against you as maintenance and ruin your life."
I am requesting her that please leave Bangalore and stay with me in Delhi as we are married and can't live without you.
My life is so simple and wants to live with a simple Indian culture. But she is planning to ruin me and take too much money and marry another guy in Bangalore.
Requesting you to please suggest me my options.
Query 1: What I can do to protect me and my parents?
Q2: If I file section 9, what would be the reactions from her side?
Q3: If she forces me for divorce with maintenance, how I can proceed for divorce only as she is working and earning well money in Bangalore.
Before going for any action against your wife you may read the following FAQs.
=======================================================================
FOLLOWING ARE QUESTIONS ASKED BY MY OTHER CLIENTS….ON THE SUBJECT OF DIVORCE..
======================================
Dear Sir,
My answers are as follows: Before starting you must remember that it is big task and never fight for case. Be cool and face it.
1, I want to know what is procedure to take divorce now and how much alimony i have to give her and monthly expenses as well.
Ans: Alimony means one time full settlement money given to wife. Montly maintenance is awareded during the pendency of case. She is entitled for one only.
2. What’s are rule and regulation for taking divorce?
Ans: It is given below.
3.I want to know whether my wife can claim her rights on the property of my parents like (my parents house) where i and my family live in as alimony.
Ans: No, wife has no share only right for maintenance or alimony. If she is educated and avoiding employment then alimony will be between Rs.2 – 3 lakhs one time settlement.
4.Will court seal my parent house as alimony ? And even she is asking to sign a paper where it will written as tht I can’t meet my son also in my entire life .
Ans: No, your father property cannot be ancestratl property as such your son not entitled for any share. You should not sign any paper. You have pay monthly maintenance to your son till he attains age of majority, only if you have sufficient means/source of income.
Please take PAID phone call with me through VIDHIKARYA and get more legal guidance.
Anand Dhanuka
Responded 4 years ago
1. You may lodge a GDE with the local Police Station that your wife is working in Bangalore and has not been staying with you and lastly she has come to you in Sept., 2019 and returned to Bangalore on ..... (mention the date).
2. If you file section 9 she may file a case under Domestic Violence
Act and also under section 498 A of IPC as you are apprehending.
3. If she forces you for divorce by filing a case either you may agree to that or contest the case and as she is working she cannot claim maintenance from you.
Separation from Sibling on a legal ground
My sister is not giving my share from our parents property
Husband denied expenses for both of us
Seeking Anullment of marriage
Mental Abuse and Harassment by Mother in law
