Mental and physical abuse in marriage
5 years ago
Meri shadi ke kuchh dino bad se mere pati mere sath maar peet karni shuru kardi, main pados mein kisi se baat nahi kar sakti apni marzi se kahin ja nahi sakti, t.v. par programme bhi apni pasand se nahi dekh yaha tak ki mujhe vote daalne tak ki permission nahi..Chhoti chhoti baaton par gaali, marna shuru ho jata hai, phir baad mein mafi maang lete hai par kuchh dino phir wohi sab. Mere saas sasur mere pati ka hi support karte hain..Saas baat baat par taane aur mere pati ko mujhe chhod dene ko kehti hai. Ye log chahte hain ki raazi raazi tum talaq dekar jao nahi to hume paise dene padenge. 2 baar maarne ki wajah se police bhi aa chuki par unke same sab innocent banne ka natak kar dete ..Police paband kar jaati kuchh din shanti phir usse jyada torture ki tumne police bulai.humesha socha shayad aage thik ho jaye par ab meri sahan shakti jawab de rahi hai agar mein ye sab sahti rahi to pagal ho jaungi ya ant mein kuchh kar na lu. sab bolte hain aurat ko ghar banaye rakhne ke liye sab sehna padta hai..Par aise to main apne aap ko hi kho dungi. ab is sab se nikalna chahti hu par nahi pata kaise? aur phir mera future kya hoga? talaq lu to kaise?Case kaise file karu aur kya nyay milega ya phir main court ke chakkar kaatti rahungi? Please meri help karein.
First tell your parents, and some friendly neighbours whom you can rely on.
First file a case of domestic violence.
Then for divorce if you like.
So, first get out of the hell. Go to your Parents house and from there you file the case.
It will take time,
Divorce with mutual consent will be faster say may be within 6 months.
Shanti Ranjan Behera
Advocate
Shreyash Mohta
Responded 5 years ago
ye law mahila pe atyachar ko rokne ke lie bana hai.
aap apne husband ke against ek domestic violence ka case file kar sakte hai.
Is act ke anusar :
Section 3 batata hai ki domestic violence kya hai
1. kisi bhi prakar ka physical abuse (jo ki, badan pe vaar, jeevan ko ashurakshit, kisi sharirik purzo ko bigarna ityaadi)
2. kisi bhi prakar ki sexual abuse (jo ki sexual nature mai aapke izzat ko chot pahuchae ya aapko chot pahuchae)
3. Kisi bhi prakar ki gaali ya emotional blackmail (ghatiya baate sunana, ya aapko gaaliyan dena, darana dhamkana ityaadi)
4. Kisi bhi prakar ki economic abuse (aapko aapke cheezo ko na istemal karne dena , ghar ke cheezo ko istemaal karne se rokna, ghar mai jo cheez hai usko na istemal karne dena ityaadi.)
aap is act ke tehet
sections : 18 to 22 ke relief ko claim kar sakte hai
Section 18 : Protection order (aapke husband ko domestic violence ki harkate karne se rokega , aap jaha rehte hai ya kaam karte hai waha aane pe paabandi lagegi, aapse baat karne pe bhi paabandhi lagegi kisi bhi tarike se sampark karna mana rahega, aapko ghar ya ghar ke kisi bhi vyastu ko istemaal karne se ab wo rok nahi sakte, aap pe ya aapke baccho pe bhi wo atyachar nahi kar sakte)
Section 19: Residence Order (aap seperate accomodation ki demand bhi kar sakte hai)
Section 20: Monetary Reliefs (aap apne expenses ke loss aur medical expenses ke lie kharcha maang karsakte hai, halaki ye relief sirf ustak hi seemit nahi hai. aur ye relief court and jusge tey karenge and ye aapke and aapke husband ke standard of iving and aap dono ki kamai ko dekh kar tey kiya jaega)
Section 21: Custody Orders (aapke baccho ki custody apke paas hi rahegi , haalaki ye temporary rahega jabtak case dispose off nahi ho jaata. magar agar kabhi bhi magistrate ko aisa laga ki aapke husband ke waha aane se aapko ya aapke baccho ko taqlif ho rahi hai to wo unke milne pe bhi paabandiya laga sakta hai)
Section 22: Compensation Order (In sab ke baad bhi, agar aap harzana maangte hai to ek application karne par magistrate aapko harzana bhi dila sakta hai. magar ye unke upar depend karta hai ki wo is application ko accept karte hai ya nahi)
In sab ke upar aapke lie ek protection officer appoint kiya jaega jo dekhega ki aapke upar aur kisi bhi prakar ka domestic violence na ho.
Section 8 ek protection officer ko appoint karega aur section 9 mai uski duties and functions specified hai,
Aap section 12 of PWDV Act ke tehet apne husband ke against ek domestic violence ka case file kar sakte hai.
uske baad aap kya kya mang sakte hai ya aapko kya kya mil sakta hai wo vistaar mai upar likha hua hai.
Rameshwar Dadhe
Responded 5 years ago
Randheer Bahadur
Responded 5 years ago
Thanks.
file complaint before court under domestic violence Act