Social harrasment- bullying

2 months ago

Sir i was working and i met a boy there.he used to talk normally.but after some days his behaviour started to change .he used to follow me everywhere .one fine day he cut his hands wrote a letter with blood and kept two bangles in my bag which he said his sisters brought for me.he said he wanted to marry me.and he would jump off the window if i didnt say yes.i became afraid as i didnt want to create ruckus in my new job.and said yes.because he involved his parents too.hardly three days passed he put ring on my finger.and put sindoor and said now you are my wife.and took pheras in temple.which only we know.n said. Wr are officially married.n with parents permission will marry in a year.he was ypunger to me but showed me fake licence in which his age was more then me.i felt myself stuck in situation.he was very abusive.he used to hit me and always used to cut his hands ..chest and various parts if i refused talking to him.he used to come in front of my house if i denied talking...i accepted the situation n thought this is my fate .sir he made physical relations with me ssying you are my wife..he used to click pictures of us ..n made videos of our private time which i was unaware.he e showed me later .i told him to delete .he said he already deleted them..after sometime i came to know that he lied to me about. His family too .his father was electrician but he told me he was senior engineer.his mother ws uneducatef but he said she was very educated.n his sisters work in company but he said they both were CA . In total he showed me his family same as ours .he showed me wrong house ..wrong vehicle..he had nothing..!!! When i came to know about this he started to do same things like cutting hands.tying himself to ceiling fan.crying..n said he only lied because he loved me and wanted to marry me..i was devastated bacause all these times i was living a wrong hope and was with this kind of person..he used to tortire me emotionallly mentally physically...je i came to know from his gmail that he had relations with his brothers wife also which he deleted the messages later..!!i lost my job because of his behaviour and people warned me about him.but it was too late then..! My mind was blocked and i could not think in right direction..i dont have evidence but came to know that his family used to perform magic rituals too .so after all these things i told him i cant marry him and its only possible if he gets a government job.we started preparing for government job .but he could not clear the exams as he lied to me about his marks too..he said he was a bright student .but that was also a lie..! His mother used to visit some pandit and he used to give me the stuff...after sometime he said that his family pundit is saying i am not right for him.n belong to obc cast...n all .!!!! He could not get a govt job so his parents did not gave him more time and said to get a private job.i told him i wont be able to marry with this job as i have a problm and my mediciene cost is 15k a month ..he knew about my illness and said his mother will adjust with me...!! Sir my mistake was that i believed a guy and loved him .one day in 2017 he came to my house when i was alone.my aunty came there he didnt wanted aunty to know that he is here so sir he jumped at the back of my house.as he was afraid .this is my mistake of calling him home..i was very serious then...! He told. Me he jumped back.n said nobody was there .back of my house is parking space for cars and car cleaners and drivers live there...!! We became friends after 2017 as it was decided that marriage is not possible n he needs to do a private job .meanwhile i also stated my preparation again.in 2019 he got a job .he got busy there ..all things were ohki.but this pain was unbearable ..because after thinking of marriage n then becoming friends was tough for me..in 2019 end i blocked him..!! After blocking things started happening..many miscreants started to come at the back of my house and started to bully me make fun...does bad things like showing private parts taking out wierd noises ....playing vulgar songs ..no body opposed this and it continued till i had to get operation done ..i. stopped going upstairs on roof ..n for few months things became norml.but after sometime it started again.people started bullying again .now when i used to go out people taunted ...laughed but nobody told me anything. Why this is happening..sir when we were together he used to tell me that he murdered people but later laughed at it...he also told me that they are muslim and his father adopted a hindu pahadi cast...n his relatives are in dubai...later laughed ..!sir the people at my backyards(whos parking space is this) are powerfull.and rich..if i will complain about them they will raise this issue of his comming to my home..!! Already they are spoiling my image everywhere....!they talk shit about me talking loudly and letting people listen intentionlly ...! I dont know what to do in this case .i dont want to involve my parents because they know about relationship but dont know how involved i was .! I genuinly need help because i m afraid they can turn voilent and can harm me physically too..please suggest me how to deal with this situation.only 1 more attempt is left for me n i dont want to take any action before that..sir if my stuff is leaked online will i have problem in getting a government job?it is not my fault but people are deteriorating my image intentionlly...i have no proof about whether it is leaked online.please give me appropriate advice choosing (forcing partnr on mysrlf) was worst decision of my life..sir i am afraid they will create problems in my marriage too...the boy works in private company in gurugram.he is neither contacting me nor harrasing me after i blocked him but other people are ..what can be done